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Love is all around this month and we’re all for it! There’s nothing more rewarding than being able to spread that stuff everywhere, like thick, melty peanut butter on hot toast.
But why limit the love to just one month? These are crazy times we’re living in, there’s no doubt about it. We believe that there’s no such thing as showing too much love – to ourselves and others – and we should intentionally look for ways to show that we care!
But why limit the love to just one month? These are crazy times we’re living in, there’s no doubt about it. We believe that there’s no such thing as showing too much love – to ourselves and others – and we should intentionally look for ways to show that we care!
WE SHARE 10 IDEAS TO HELP YOU SPREAD A LITTLE LOVE
LOVE YOURSELF
Before we can share the love, we need to receive it. Self-care will always be the best way to keep your tank full and overflowing. And just because the word has “self” in it, it actually has very little to do with selfishness. The best way we can care for others is from a place of care for ourselves. Our recent healthy habits blog explains why.
Here are 5 simple ways to nurture self-care:
- Me-Time
Prioritise time for yourself every week, no matter what:
- Get into nature – a walk on the beach, a solo hike in a beautiful forest or an early morning run
- Get pampered - a relaxing facial, manicure or massage
- Get refreshed – a (hot) cup of coffee and a good book, a motivating podcast, a long soak in the tub with your favourite playlist
- Have a hobby
You don’t even have to be good at it to enjoy it – that’s the point!
Don’t have a hobby? Here are some ideas:
- Draw, paint or journal
- Take a photography course or just go out and take some photos
- Start a blog
- Learn an instrument
- Write poetry or a short story
- Restore old furniture
- Join a running club
- Start a veggie or herb garden
- Cook or bake something new
- Detox
In this case, we simply mean: take stock of every area of your life, cut out the junk and add in the good stuff. A life detox will look different to each person.
- Physical detox: Eat lean and clean. Cut down on sugar and processed foods. Low carbs, high protein. Drink lots of water. Snack on nutrient-dense foods. Exercise.
- Mental detox: Go phone-free when you can. Delete those soul-sapping apps. Limit social media and news. Turn off the TV. Read. Meditate.
- Social detox: Re-evaluate the people in your life. Choose your friends wisely. Is there someone you should distance yourself from? Where should you put up emotional boundaries? Is there a hard conversation you need to have? Is there someone you need to forgive?
- Emotional detox: Journal. Laugh. Show yourself grace. Embrace and express your emotions. Have a good cry. Go to therapy. Forgive yourself. Meet a life-giving friend for a good, long talk about life.
- Say “No”
Giving your schedule some breathing room could be one of the best things you do this year. Saying “no” every now and again gives you the space to prioritise yourself and your time. You don’t have to have plans every single weekend. Your kids don’t have to attend every birthday party. You don’t have to allow so-and-so’s negativity to dampen your day.
Boundaries are sometimes hard to implement but they’re vital to your wellbeing, your health, your family, your time, your budget, everything. Not everyone will understand and that’s ok. You decide what’s right for you.
- Spoil yourself
Spoil yourself every now and again – your soul needs it.
LOVE PEOPLE
Loving yourself always has a ripple effect – it will flow out to those around you, friends and strangers alike.
Here are 5 ways to care for those around you
- Make kindness your default
- Express your appreciation
Why not be that person today? Tell someone you’re grateful for their friendship. Compliment someone’s smile. Tell your employees how much you value their hard work and commitment. When we’re appreciated, we will pay it forward.
- Share a picnic with a friend
- Random acts of kindness
Here are some simple acts that could mean the world to another person:
- Pay for the coffee of the person in the queue behind you
- Leave an extra generous tip
- Write an anonymous note of encouragement
- Pay a stranger a genuine compliment
- Buy a bunch of flowers and leave individual stems on car windscreens
- Leave coins at the parking pay station
- Give a rave review for great service
- Teach someone something new
- Cook extra food and take a meal over to a neighbour
- Celebrate with a Snackbox